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[quote=Anonymous]Having spent 14 months trying for current pregnancy, I know that you can't plan your life around pregnancies and the idea of delaying a month as if you can magically time things is silly. When my sister in law announced her engagement I told her "DH and I have been trying for awhile. So, depending what happens and when you're wedding is might affect whether we can attend." She decided to get married 10 months later and I was 7 months pregnant with my first and we could go. A few weeks later, however, I was having contractions and we had to skip a cousin's wedding that was just two hours from DC. I told my DH to go, figuring things would take awhile even if it was the real deal, but he didn't go and cousin was gracious about it. It was a false alarm, but my first showed up a few days later (just after 8 months) and arrived in about four hours! Pregnancies and babies are unpredictable. Oh, I'd forgotten my sister told me not to take too long planning our wedding because they wanted to start trying but would wait until after the wedding so she could drink. Their first was born 17 months after my wedding, so if she started trying right away that took awhile too. Anyhow, expecting people to plan their lives around your milestones is silly![/quote]

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