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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I think that you are displeased with your husband's career decisions/lack of making career decisions/unrealistic desires for you to be a SAHM. And you are taking it out on this one thing. You could move to Georgia--he would work in Athens, you would work in Atlanta. You decide as a team where to live. Repeat in all other states on the list. But you seem so unhappy--understandably--with the way he is going about making career decisions that this isnt even an option. Talk to a therapist.[/quote] This. I'm a PP faculty spouse. I get the feeling that the problem you presented in your OP is the "tipping point." So much more is coming out now, about him wanting you to be a SAHM for a long time, about his continued lack of communication, etc. A therapist might be your best bet.[/quote] Yes we do need to see a therapist. It's tricky finding time to see one as we have a 6 month at home. I think it would be nice to have a middle person. We both get very emotional when we bring up this topic. [/quote]
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