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[quote=Anonymous]I got to page three and decided to post a response. He sounds a little like a mama's boy type. One who really gets his self esteem from female attention and input. Even if he doesn't see her as a mom, etc., he may still be feeling good in a close friendship like this with an older, knowledgeable female. She is more accomplished, etc. The amount of advice he asks her for supports that. He's getting "good strokes" from all of the attention and advice from her. I think if she wanted to take it further, he would be at risk for doing that. However, more importantly, I'd be concerned about his self esteem, and why he needs female attention like this so badly, so much. If he has mother issues, that could be a problem long term. I'm married to a man similar to this, and he does have mother issues. Take it from me, after extensive counseling for both of us, I'm not sure we can make it work. It's so pervasive in everything he does. [/quote]
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