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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, so I had a little talk with him about his "Friend" that was probably one of the most useless conversations I have ever had. I told him about the text and that I had seen them. He was a little pissed but not to bad. He, of course, denies any romantic involvement with this woman at all. Turned it around on me and told me I was looking for trouble and have now found it so I should be happy. He says the classic thing "we are just friends" and feels that it should be left at that. Said the text at night before going to bed aren't a big deal. He made it a point of saying that of all the text show him one where it was inappropriate. Of course, non of them have been. Asked about why calling her while coming here and not me and reply was that he didn't want to disturb my son with calls and talking. That is BS he sleeps like the dead and he knows that.

I have now officially made my self look like a green eyed monster and I am sure he is at work now talking to her about the "Crazy, Jealous" girlfriend. I knew this would be his answer to everything but I had to say something. Probably cooked my goose now. [/quote]

So what if you "cooked your goose"? Do you really want to be playing second fiddle to this "friend" forever? Especially since it's obvious he has no intentions of cooling it with her? Frankly, you're better off without him and with someone who acts appropriately with members of the opposite sex and doesn't let this "friend" monopolize his life morning, noon, and night. Doesn't sound like you're in love with him. Sounds like you're in love with what you want him to be, except he's not going to be that. [/quote]

OP Here...appreciate everyone's comments. As far as cooking my goose....haven't had a lot of contact with him lately cause I had to go out of town. We have talked about it a bit more but doesn't look like he any issues with the level of communications that he has with this woman. I guess I was hoping for more from him and between the two of us he has one perfect woman. Turns out she has been fully aware of me from day one but I am just finding out about her. I learned a new good word to describe this "Work Wife". Some think this is harmless some thing it is the devils spawn. Not sure what to do now. Could keep up this long distance thing knowing that a considerable amount of his time away from me is being spent with her. Or I could cut my losses and move on and they can have each other. I told him that if I stepped out of the way I believe he would immediately take up with her. His response was that no he wouldn't but what else is he going to say. "Yeah, absolutely"[/quote]

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