Reply to "False advertising" related to weight

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to ""False advertising" related to weight"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To get back on topic, I think that if your spouse's weight is so important to you that you'd cry "false advertising" if they gained, then you need to be completely upfront and give anyone you date a clear warning that you value looks above all else. You must warn them that they can't count on you to love and want them when they inevitably become less physically attractive over time, should you marry. If you don't warn them, you're the false advertiser. [/quote]
Gaining weight is NOT inevitable. I've not gained any weight. I see alot of attractive older women around who are thin/fit.
But my wife is now 50 pounds heavier than when we married. I am not the least bit attracted to her, sexually.
This has nothing to do with the natural aging process, it is entirely her weight gain.

Yes, my wife falsely advertised. She pretended to value maintaining a fit appearance.

You can call me a false advertiser for not "warning her" that I will always value staying physically fit.
It seems pretty obvious that if I wanted a girl even larger than myself, then I would not have connected with my then-thin wife, right?
And I could never have predicted that she would just stop caring about her weight.
You say we should not have married? Well indeed that may happen.
She doesn't deserve to be with somebody like me.
And I don't deserve to be with somebody like she's become.[/quote]

People are different, what is physically easy for one individual may not be physically easy for another individual.

Apparently for some people its easier to love someone for who they are inside, and for others, this is difficult and results in great pain for their families down the line.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics