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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op - you can not trust a word this woman says.  She's an admitted liar.

Get a DNA test done to verify that you are not the biological father.  She might not be telling the truth.[/quote]

Get a DNA test done. If she was a terrible GF, then stay away from her she will be a terrible wife.

In any case, lawyer up, as a law-talking type will be necessary for ordering DNA tests, forcing Biodad to be involved, and whatever nuances your state/locality calls for.

Biodad might be happy to visit 1-6 times a month on his terms, but may cut and run as soon as either (1) a DNA test is asked for, (2) $$$ is asked for, or (3) more time is asked for. In that case, welcome back to fatherhood (since OP is on the birth certificate.)

If Biodad runs off then future GF's need not even know the entire story on dates 1-3. Existence of the kid? Sure, that's gotta be mentioned on or before date 1. But the whole dirty story? Not until later, when a woman's decided she likes OP and will be more forgiving of wrinkles in OP's life.

If anything, a guy who treats a kid that's not his biologically as his own is more attractive to women (well, as attractive as a guy with a kid can be) provided the baby mamma causes a minimal amount of drama. Many women will just assume "U ABANDONED UR BABBY!" without caring to know the story of the relationship but they'd be against you from the get-go regardless of the story. [/quote]

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