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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, we agree that decent sex will NOT always prevent a man from cheating!!  For the second time, that's not what I said.

I said the inverse: a marriage without much sex is 100 times more likely the man will be looking outside.

Understand?[/quote]

No. In studies, a marriage without much sex is not 100 times more likely the man will cheat, not even 2 times more likely. In reality if you have 100 marriages, 50 with no sex and 50 with tons of sex ... still 60% of men cheat in both groups: 30 men with no sex and 30 men with tons of sex cheat. [/quote]

Even if the studies are true, which I doubt - of the 30 men with no or little sex who cheated had a reasonable sex life, how many would cheat?  The answer is less.

Again, not blaming OP.  And of course, there are some men (and women) who have an amazing spouse and sex life and cheat anyway.  And there are also amazing people who have great values who would be faithful but cheat because they have been abandoned.  All anyone can say is that if you neglect your spouse it increases the chances of infidelity.  It's not rocket science.[/quote]

Not sure why you are so defensive about the science behind the reality. But the reality is... men with no or little sex do NOT cheat more often than men with reasonable sex lives.

Men cheat because of who they are. It has nothing to do with their wives. Just like men who drink too much drink too much, it has nothing to do with their wives nagging them, they are alcoholics, nothing the wife can do to prevent it. [/quote]

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