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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would be deeply offended if my spouse did not name me as the trustee and executor of the trust/estate. Basically that says "you suck and I don't trust you to do the best for our children after I die". Why are you even married to a person for whom that is true?[/quote] No, it says, I recognize you will have different pressures and interests on you after I die. I am setting this up so you can be sheltered from that and someone else can help with this duty while you focus on your and the kids' daily life." If I were the Dad in the Hax column, I'd be grateful to be able to say that I had no control over the money and that others determined what it could be used for. Stepmom basically would have to stop nagging the dad about it. [/quote]
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