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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The bottom line is that most women have had some negative  experiences with online dating. There are guys out there that say that they want relationships, etc. but they are really looking for just quick and easy hook-ups.

When I meet a stranger from an online site, I am usually a bit more vocal about making it clear that I am not going to sleep with them right away.  Nothing is really all that different from regular dating (I still find a make out session on date 3 or 4 to be the norm, sex after 5-6 dates if the vibe is right).

Women are just more open about telling you that they aren't going to hop in bed with you if they meet you online.  It's a way to weed out the ones that won't wait more than 3 dates for sex. If a guy has a hard and fast rule about not waiting more than that, he is probably not a very high quality guy.[/quote]

This. Many men are using online dating to casually sleep with one or more women at once. This is having a backlash - women know this now and are more cautious. It's safer to date the guy for longer first, make sure it's exclusive, etc.

Once a woman is burned on this issue, she becomes more cautious.[/quote]

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