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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I feel for you. This is weird and I really hope you get to the bottom of this. If this is the beginning (or middle or even climax) of a pattern, be very careful to trust his word. If this is the secret you know about after some light snooping, then be prepared to find out some whoppers should you snoop again. I think you should, because you deserve to know what else he's secretly spending money on (or secretly embezzling or secretly paying for hookers or who knows what). It took me some hard snooping to find out my DH was cheating. He hid it well for a while. Also found out that my money (as the higher earner) was going toward his secret porn habit.[/quote] Who pays for porn?![/quote] Porn addicts. And the computer equipment to store porn on adds up--the dedicated ones have a special laptop they can take everywhere, and [b]hundreds to thousands of dollars worth of memory sticks[b] for use in phone and computers.[/quote] WTF? No. If you watched porn 24/7 365 days a year from the moment you were born until the moment you died, lived an average life expectancy, and never re-watched the same porn clip, and never saves over your porn stash, you'd still need only about $40,000 in storage media. If your husband actually spent hundreds of thousands of dollars of your money, you have still not figured out what he actually spent it on.[/quote]
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