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For pete's sake. Anyone who is spending hours and hours perusing their boyfriend's facebook friends to see what posts he liked and the "tone" of his interactions is deeply insecure. Sad for a 40+ year old mother, sorry.[/quote]

OP here.  I'm not perusing all his friends.   For some reason this one just seemed "different."  I don't look up his other "friends."

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Oh, please. You noticed that he had a new FB friend (among 1000+!), then checked her out to see what she looked like and how she knew him, then monitored her posts for a while to see what kind of stuff she posted and what she liked on your BFs page and whether he liked any of her stuff. Then you brought it up to him, he gave you an explanation, then "it came up again" and he started lying and you started with the gotcha.

This is not normal behavior for a healthy relationship for people in their 40s. You were deeply insecure about this relationship BEFORE she ever became his FB friend.

Why won't you answer any questions about how your marriages ended? You obviously are monitoring this thread closely.[/quote]

My marriage ended due to constant verbal abuse and put downs by my ex.
He has said his marriage ended because they weren't communicating well and were both miserable.[/quote]

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