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[quote=Anonymous]I think we have to think about what our larger goal is here. My goal would be to increase contact and understanding among different races. How does that happen? BY having MORE contact not less and being understanding but firm about insulting racial slurs. Hence, I would somehow point out and ask about the slur and say that DD really did have a lovely time at their house and really enjoys their daughter. Be soft but honest if you can and then see what happens. This could be the start of REAL actual change. If you get hard and firm (not pliable), the other family is likely to dig in and possibly increase their racial slurs and feelings. YEs you are being the bigger person - but in the long run, you could really turn this family around and that would be AMAZING. Just my two cents. So sorry about this-[/quote]
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