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Looks like you responded to a bunch of threads in a few minutes, all responses inflammatory and rude.  Go away.[/quote]
I didn't realize I have to take long breaks between responding to a few threads on top of the list! Anyway, I often call out posters who are inflammatory, rude, and tell people to go away. Maybe you should heed your own advice.[/quote]
Slowly does it, PP. If you can't take the time to read the whole thread or at least get a correct sense of what all the main protagonists did, your opinion will be based on an incorrect reading of facts, and will there for be null and void. Don't be trigger-happy, it will lead you to dump on a ton of threads without making useful contributions.
If you had actually taken the time to think, everybody except one loony individual and yourself (perhaps you are the same person!) is firmly on OP's side, since it's been more than a decade of one mentally ill family member being abusive to the others.
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LOL Who's here to make useful contributions? Fine, there are people who think they are useful, but no, they're not.

I don't think sides. I do think OP is a bit of a drama queen. No matter how unfortunate or crazy the relative, if you need to vent, you seriously need to reacess your priorities. Otherwise, enjoy the drama, what else is there to say?[/quote]

So it's fine for you to insult people and call them vile.
But it's not fine for a long-suffering person to vent anonymously on the internet, without using any hurtful words, and ask for advice so that she can avoid blowing up at the person that is causing her suffering?
Have you never complained to anyone about anything before? Can you accept that other might need to do the same?
So you understand that you are holding up other people to a much higher standard than your own self?
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:-) Yes, it's okay for me to say the other poster is vile, because it is my opinion of her. Yes, it's okay for OP to vent, because she obviously can't go on without venting. Yes, I have complained about shit, and I fully accept someone else's need to do the same. Shockingly, it is still okay for me and everybody else to comment on an open forum.

I literally hold DCUM to no standard. I recommend the same to you. If you can't handle differing opinions, maybe you should stick to blogs. It's okay too. Just. Lighten. Up.[/quote]

you are very weird. Very. [/quote]

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