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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]OP here. So what if my daughter was old enough to understand these things? My other brother has a 4 year old son and SIL skipped his birthday party the last two years, and barely acknowledges him. Didn't even wish him a happy birthday.[/quote]

When your DD is old enough to understand, then you can post.  Regarding your other brother's son.  If he's got an issue with your SIL's behavior, he's the one who should address it with her.  It's really not your business.  Until then, you need to learn to regulate your own emotions and learn that most people, even relatives, will not find your children as interesting, adorable and amazing as you do.  [/quote]

So you only wish people happy birthday if you find them interesting, adorable, and amazing?  You feel no need to be basically decent and polite to your relative's children?

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How I interact with my relatives is irrelevant.  Your SIL's behavior with her nephew is none of your business.  It is between her, the boy and his parents.  Any issues you have with your SIL's behavior towards your child should be addressed with your DH (her brother).  It is his relationship to manage, not yours.  You should focus your efforts on learning how to curb your gossiping and creating drama in the family.

You should reconsider hosting your SIL's baby shower.  Your heart isn't in the right place, your feelings are not genuine and your SIL deserves better.  You are neither decent nor polite.[/quote]

I'm the PP you responded to and I'm not the OP.   Don't be so daft; the mention of the nephew is relevant because it shows a pattern of behavior by SIL.  SIL is the drama queen here.  Your post makes no sense.[/quote]

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