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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unless you get a personal invitation directly from step-mom, you have not been invited. What your DD wants, thinks should happen is not important - not even on her birthday. If you get the above invitation, I do think you should suck-it-up and go - then it's about your DD's happiness, not yours.[/quote]

WTF are you talking about? OF COURSE what DD wants - particularly on her birthday - matters and is important. [/quote]

Not in this case. She doesn't get what she wants when it forces her mother and step-mother and father into a very awkward, unhappy situation.

She can have a Mother/Daughter spa day or something instead of having her mom at her party. [/quote]

My God this is so clueless.  This poor child didn't ask for her parents to split up (apparently neither did her mother) and didn't ask for her to have to have separate parties for the rest of her life because the adults in her life are so frigging selfish (NOT you OP).

You couldn't be more wrong.[/quote]

Not in this case. She doesn't get what she wants when it forces her mother and step-mother and father into a very awkward, unhappy situation.

She can have a Mother/Daughter spa day or something instead of having her mom at her party.

I agree or mom can have her own party on a different weekend. Most of my friends do it that way, it works for everyone.

OP  needs to find out the invite is ok with the wife. I read ex only, not ex and wife.
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