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I am in my late 30's (woman) and dealing with my hormones going nuts and radically changing. But looking good for my husband AND so that I am comfortable with myself and in my own skin is a priority for me. I'm tired of women giving the excuses. You can find a half hour to work out. You can buy healthier foods. Is that so hard to do if it means being confident in yourself and keeping the spark alive in your relationships? It sucks to deal with but you change the way you've always eaten and always exercised to something different to counteract the hormonal effects. [b]The women on here saying that men are shallow who still want their partner to be attractive are hands down the crew of ladies who have gotten lazy and don't want to BOTHER keeping up their physical attractiveness. It's not that they CAN'T, 99% of the time. It's that they choose not to. That is a disrespect to your spouse. You're all lunatics if you think physical attraction isn't a major part of any relationship.[/b] [/quote]

This may or may not be true. What I don't understand is why you are so tired of others? Let me guess. You're tired on working on the grand facade that keeps on crumbling. You are also pissed at all the women whose relationships are evidently deeper and happier than yours. I'm sorry you have to work your ass off to stay married. Not all people do. Some of us don't get hung up on extra 15 lbs, because, frankly, there is so much more to life, love, and marrige.[/quote]

Can you find the point in my post where I said I had to work my ass off to be happy in my marriage? I buy healthy food when I shop, which is not working my ass off. I exercise about an hour a day which is also not working my ass off. I believe my post was saying that it's really not that hard to maintain yourself.

Also, to the PP who said to come back when I'm in my 50's, I understand that. But the post I was responding to specifically mentioned the changes women go through in their 30's, so I was specifically addressing the 30's. [/quote]

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