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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your DH has moved for you several times and it's now his turn.  Not  at all complicated and mighty. And, if you were big important job is actually just working at the SEC or DOJ if you can manage to find work there, you have bigger issues. [/quote]

But some moves are different from others. If you're a northeasterner, then moving around between DC and NYC isn't a huge big deal. Also, it sounds like the husband had obvious job opportunities in these cities.

It does sound like OP is having a panic attack over Dallas job prospects before actually investigating them - go investigate them! - but I don't think it's fair to lambaste her for being reluctant to leave the cities where she has great contacts and great works. Obviously, if her family moved a few times for her career prospects, her career means a lot to her - so saying, ok, now you go onto a totally different path, isn't really realistic.
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No one is lambasting her for being reluctant to move or being reluctant to move to Dallas specifically. The criticism is that she appears pretty nonchalant about the prospects of ending her marriage - and subjecting her toddler to cross-country co-parenting - simply because of this reluctance to move cities.[/quote]

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