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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are they siamese twins?  If not, inviting one does not mean inviting the other.  The Mom should know this.

I would hold firm OP.  [b]There is no need to have a strange kid there so the mom can get 1-2hrs of free time.[/b]  It is actually good for the kids to split up and make their own sets of friends and events.  [/quote]

You sound very hospitable. [/quote]

Jeez, no kidding.

Yes, it's great for the kids to have their own friends, but we're talking 6 yr olds! [b] I can tell you that my 4 yr old twins are already dealing with "one only" invitations to b'day parties and it can be hard.[/b]  Of course I don't assume both are invited, but I sure appreciate the parents who do invite both. [b] And I really hate watching one of them in tears because they can't go to a party because they weren't asked. [/b] (And this happens in a preschool class with a total of 14 kids - so not multiple classrooms, or a large crowd, or anyone who doesn't know there are twins.)

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[b]Oh my fucking God lady.  Get a grip.  Your kids are not attached to the hip.  They are two separate kids with two different personalities.  They aren't a packaged deal.  Stop treating them like that.[/b] [/quote]

Twin mom here: It is people like PP above that you most want to avoid. They don't have twins; they dont understand the dynamic, but they sure want to raise yours for you in the most hostile way. Fortunately, you know that neither of your twins needs a mom/ friend like this. The moms I have seen like this are the ones who have their [b]child[/b] glued to their hip.[/quote]

THANK YOU!

I totally agree.

Yes my twins are individuals, and yes (to the other pp) they get "time in" when one doesn't get to go to the party.  And they're freaking human - [b]they are old enough to know they're missing a fun event with most of their friends.[/b]

Friggin' DCUM...[/quote]

The OP stated her son isn't friends with the other twin.  So he is obviously not friends with this kid but now is going to the party to someone who he doesn't even know.  That is bizarre.  And close-in-age siblings are aware that their other siblings go to a party.  Should we have to invite them too?  Your kids aren't magical because they are twins.  They are just the same age.  It doesn't mean they are friends with the same people nor should they have to be invited to the same party.  I can not stand people like you that think your kids are special.  They aren't.  [/quote]

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