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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, my instinct was to just let it go.  but I wanted to double check it.  twin was in quotes b/c I haven't had coffee yet!  we live in a small town house so 1 extra person does make a difference.  we won't have enough seats for everyone etc and I thought it might be weird to have a kid at the party who doesn't know the other kids....but I am reminded now that at 6/7 you pretty much just play with whoever anyway.  so hopefully it will all work out.  
this is our first twin friend so we don't have experience with it--are twins just treated as a package deal until an older age?  if you invite one, you invite both etc?[/quote]

No. I wouldn't assume same sex twins are a package deal. I have 1st grade fraternal twin boys and I actually like them being invited separately  to birthday parties. It was easier to do that in K, but now in 1st grade there is more of a mixing of the kids and classes so they do now often get invited together. I do wish that when parents send out birthday invites they put the name of the child being  invited. If it is left unclear, and I know that the child having the party knows and is friends with both my boys and other parents are rsvping for siblings, I typically rsvp for both or I just ask the parent.  I totally get that space is limited for some brthday venues and would never push both my twins on a party invite  and my kids understand that. [/quote]

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