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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I'm the PP from 9:12 and 10:20

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I realize the damage is done and it might help if you also go to counseling for it. This is why I changed I didn't have a clue that it can be this destructive even w/o physical abuse.

I feel for you I hope your hubby would change before it gets any worst. He know it bothers you but to what extent I don't think he understand that yet.

Did you tell him- does he know -how just seeing the signs, body language, facial expression triggers something in you?  If he doesn't I think it's important that he should.[/quote]

I have explained and expressed it to him and clearly as any person could. I am a good communicator. But he (a) proudly defines himself as a good person - admitting the severity of the actions would require him to alter his self-view, and I believe that is frightening and painful for him; and (b) I think maybe grew up in a home where this was normal. I'm not sure about that, but that kind of "passion" doesn't seem to faze him. And he has no sisters so it's easy for him to dismiss my reaction as "sensitivity." [/quote]

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