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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not that I need "so much rest". I get up at 5, get to work at 6 and work till 2. Usually after work I get home by 2:30 or 3. That's when I nap or just relax. When j am relaxing, I have no problem cuddling or just chatting with him. Like I said before, my "relaxing" time is just time that I don't have to mentally focus on anything serious. I enjoy his company in my downtime. It's not like I want him to leave me alone when I'm just chilling, in fact I want him there.

Some days are worse than others, instead of just decompressing I need a serious nap.

When he wakes me up, I answer him and go back to sleep. I will stop doing that. Sometimes I just "pretend" to still be asleep even though his calling me has woken me up.

No I don't think I would need a live in nanny necessarily. I'm always awake by 5 pm, which isn't much different from when most people are getting home from work. Then I'm up from 5 till about 11. During that time, im with him and we cook, eat together, work on chores, veg in front of the tv, have sex, etc. just depends on the day.

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I'm one of the raging bitch PPs.

OP - you are part of the problem here.  You may have asked your fiancé not to wake you up but your actions communicate a very different message.  Stop it.  You don't need to go full bitch mode but you need to be very clear you don't want to be woken up and when he wakes you up *call him out on that.*  Take some ownership for clearly and repeatedly communicating your needs.

Also - you blame the need for sleep on your chronic condition, but you're also only getting 6 hours of sleep a night.  That's too little for plenty of people.  How did you get on a schedule of a nap + evening sleep vs. going to bed before 11 if you have to be up  at5AM?  [/quote]

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