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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My 7yo DS is a nice kid, doesn't cause any problems and listens to the teacher. DS's FCPS Alexandria school is 30% free lunch/ESOL. He has 27 kids in his class. DS is a bright kid but probably not gifted. I feel like he is completely ignored in his class. I don't know if this is unique to his class or school or if it will be the same everywhere for a well behaved non-troublemaker who isn't profoundly gifted.

I don't know if things will change if we move to Arlington or Mclean, deemed better schools. I would like to move to Arlington for closer proximity to work and smaller class sizes. Mclean has nicer curb appeal but I believe class sizes are even bigger.[/quote]

What does the 30% free lunch and ESOL have to do with him? So you are saying because the school is 30% Hispanic or poor (in your post you seem to conflate the two) your child is not made to feel special enough? What do you want them to do? Make him star of the week every week? [/quote]

I never said they were Hispanic. At our school, the incoming kids are from Arabic and/or N African countries. The Hispanic kids can mostly all speak English even if their parents speak Spanish at home. [/quote]

Supplement at home like the rest of us then! You didn't answer the question of what you wanted them to do about your admittedly average kid. This is life. He will be an average adult and his supervisors aren't going to promote him just because they spend time on all the disciplinary issues that they need to fire or they spend time developing talent for those that will be promoted quickly. What do you want them to do for your child?[/quote]

This is overly snarky. Having been in the same situation, it's not that we want our kids to feel special, we want them to actually learn something new and feel challenged. That shouldn't be too much to expect from public school. For my DD first grade was a completely wasted year other than her reading improved a little from practicing at home. Her teacher was basically useless. But in talking to the parents of the kids who are "gifted" they thought she was great.[/quote]

The spin and the reality of FCPS are very different.  Some parents catch on quick, others it takes a while, and some never do.  It's just not anywhere near as good a school system as they purport it to be.  Nothing in it - the teaching, administration, even transportation stands up to close scrutiny.   Everyone is so bought in to the concept of 'world class' schools that very few want to acknowledge its decline.  I don't know what it was 20 or 30 years ago, but it is not a very good system anymore.   [/quote]

Unfortunately, this is true.  It's not world class.  It's not even very good.  I don't fault the teachers - there are some amazing teachers, but they are amazing in spite of the administration and the school system and not because of it.  I think the biggest problem is the administration. From central on down, administrators tend to be the least qualified people to do those jobs, and the people hired tend to be politicians and bullies instead of people with actual leadership skills.  There is little accountability for anything that matters.  FCPS is overly focused on testing and is extremely bureaucratic and politically motivated. I have been both a teacher and a parent, and that has been my observation in both capacities.  I have relatives in schools in another state, and the quality of the education they are getting is miles above what we are getting in every way.[/quote]

95% of the people who post like this just handle the fact that there are so many bright kids in FCPS and that theirs are about average.  They tend to say positive things about systems with more "average" kids, where they think their kids would be higher on the curve.   [/quote]

...and I hope that when these "bright FCPS" kids go to college they can handle the fact that they are just average compared to their classmates from other parts of the country.[/quote]

I [b]used to teach[/b] in a college that a lot of fcps kids go to.  It was hilarious to see their little entitled faces when they got a "B."  Because their work was B level, and it turned out that all those years of being called "gifted" just meant they did their homework and could follow directions.  But when they actually had to use their brains, they couldn't, and couldn't accept that maybe their best work was just....average.[/quote]

It is easy to understand why you [b]USED TO[/b] teach there.[/quote]

Seriously.  What kind of an educator sits back and laughs at something like that?  Good grief.[/quote]

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