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[quote=Anonymous]OP here's the deal: many people tell the next wife, husband, or lover that the last wife, husband, or lover was damaged, crazy, impossible, or pressured them into marriage.

Insecure people fear that if they told the truth-- I'm a grown-ass person who fell in love with and married someone and it didn't work out because I'm human and fucked up -- then they won't get another chance at love.

Your husband sold you that and you believed it as a woman of questionable judgment in your 20s. Sleeping with a married man takes low self esteem and that's the kind of personality that will buy "he cheated because she sucks and I'm special" from a man who is at that very moment breaking a promise to someone else.

Maybe he won't cheat- or maybe you won't catch him and he won't leave because there's only so much child support one man can pay-- but nobody wants the secret to your success. I pity your stupidity and lack of judgment. I pity your husband's children and relatives for having to put up with the likes of you two. [/quote]

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