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[quote=Anonymous]The lady who moved her luncheon may very well have been one of the women who had RSVP'd to OP's party.  Read OP's post again:

[quote]I also had [b]invited a group [u]of them[/u] to my home[/b] for coffee the second year I was there to reach out one more time and most said yes but [b]2 days before [u]one of them[/u] changed a bday luncheon to which many of them were invited and about 6 or 7 of them cancelled on me to attend the luncheon[/b]. The only ones that did come were not invited or part of that circle. [/quote]

It's not totally clear from OP's post whether the person who moved their lunch date was invited to OP's house, but it's certainly possible that she was among the group "of them" that OP invited to her house.  In which case, SO, SO RUDE.

And even if it was a different woman, for 7 women to cancel out of a coffee at your house 2 days before to attend another event is also really, really rude.  Did not one of these 7 women think to say to the hostess, oh actually I and a few others have another commitment at that time, would you consider thinking about another time of day?  And did not one of them make amends or another date with OP?  It's just RUDE, especially since they knew OP was new to the school and easily should have realized she was trying to make friends.  Where were their brains or consideration for someone besides themselves or their own inner circle.  Just so thoughtless and rude.

DO NOT WANT.[/quote]

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