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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, of course we don't know the full story, [b][i]but nothing you wrote so far indicates that these women have been rude or exclusionary toward you.[/i][/b]  They just look different and have more money. But that alone doesn't really make people mean or unworthy of knowing.  Do you HAVE to have friends that only make within 10% of what you're making? It's perfectly possible to be friends with people who are in different life circumstances. I honestly feel that you are prejudging them and not opening up to a possibility of actually finding a connection there. You might enjoy their company but you've already closed your mind.  Reconsider?

On the connection note, I'm sure you know that the most value of private schools, apart from education, is in the social networks people form there, which can sustain themselves throughout their lives, college, first jobs, second jobs, professional networks etc.  Would it really be so bad for your son if you made an effort to integrate yourself into the social network dimension of private school? You never know when these connections may come up handy. [/quote]

I think it was both rude and exclusionary to reschedule their own in-group birthday gathering for the time when OP was having her own meet-up, and then change all their own RSVPs to her party from yes to no.  Once you've RSVP'd to a party, you don't change your RSVP because a "better" party comes along.  SO rude.  SO mean.  SO unkind.  Who would want to be friends with people like that, except for social ladder climbing?[/quote]

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