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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, why did not work on your marriage if you knew your wife was unhappy to begin with?[/quote]

I didn't know she was unhappy until almost a year after my affair started. That's my fault because I wasn't there for her like I use to and we didn't spend a lot of time together for obvious reasons.[/quote]

Wow, you had no clue about her unhappiness?  Gimme a break, no one is that naive.  She had to drop hints at the very least.  You didn't want to be married to her to begin with, that is the real reason you found companionship elsewhere. [/quote]

She didn't drop any hints that she was unhappy. I did want to be married to her, but I met the OW at work and we really connected in a way that I didn't connect with my wife.[/quote]

So why did you get married to begin with?  It sounds like she didn't have the qualities you were looking for and found it with someone at work instead. [/quote]

Because I loved her and planned to spend the rest of my life with her. Plus we were both ready to start a family.[/quote]

You loved her because?

You strayed for a reason, you need to figure that reasoning out. [/quote]

I still love her, but I'm not in love with her the way I was before we got married. I know why I strayed, it started from a fight we had about family. I know it's not a good reason, but it's hard to make a marriage work when you constantly are torn between your wife and your family. I confided in my coworker about my feelings and things took off from there.[/quote]

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