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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I think the issue you're having on this thread is that many of the people responding lost their virginity 20+ years ago and have had lots of partners.  They don't remember what it was like to have just lost your virginity. If you waited until 25, this was clearly something important to you.  It's not crazy to want to discuss this important thing happening with your partner and I could see how wondering what his experience was like would naturally come up. That being said, I have had sexual experiences I would prefer not to discuss so I can see where your BF is coming from.  Not all of us have been as careful in choosing our partners/experiences!
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I lost my virginity at 20 to my bf of a year and have had two other partners. My XH and my current fiancé. I STILL think OP is out of line. There are questions for a sexual partner that are reasonable for health and compatibility reasons. Then there are questions that a person has a right to decline to answer for a wide variety of reasons, including to protect someone else or just to preserve as sacred a memory.

How would OP feel if her bf breaks up with her and he shares her name and basic details of her defloration with all his subsequent partners.[/quote]

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