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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe it's someone he's still friends with (even someone you might meet!) and is trying to protect her privacy.  [/quote]

This is what I think.

And to be honest, I'd expect that if I were the woman in question.

I've never been anyone's devirginizer, but I was more than a bit weirded out when one of my XH's post-divorce gfs made a remark to me that revealed he had discussed our sex life in detail. It was something that she could not have guessed on her own. Nothing I was ashamed of, but I thought that it was a definitely an overstepping of bounds for him to tell and her to reveal to me that she knew. I wonder if she pressured him into some weird kiss and tell conversation. If there was any health reason she needed to know (there wasn't), he could have told her the act without telling it was me.[/quote]

So it would be ok for him to lie to me to do this? I know he has a past that doesn't bother me. I would be upset if he pretended to me that he wasn't involved with a friend, and then it came out that he was.[/quote]

Honey, if you ask someone something private and they demur, but you keep pressuring them to give you an answer, then, yep, you kinda deserve a lie.[/quote]

No one deserves to be lied to. I think you only say that because I don't have a lot of experience.  Anyway I have only asked him 2 times, and I probably won't ask him again.[/quote]

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