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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know it bothers her, but I keep my MIL on my Restricted FB list. She still sees all the kid photos and everyday posts, but I sometimes indulge my dark humor and don't really want her seeing that. She found out because one of DH's cousins cracked up at something I posted when he was with her, and told her to look at my FB when she asked what was funny.

It wasn't intentional to hurt/exclude her, but I won't change it even though I know it bothers her. Oh well...[/quote]

This is exactly the kind of thing my SIL did...from day one..which made it clear that she wanted zero relationship with me, and with my family.  Why she felt her "dark humor" was so different from anyone else's dark humor is beyond me.  Ditto why no one in our family could be informed that she had cancer.  Yes, you heard that correctly.  We could not know because it was "private."  I found out the day of my wedding when she arrived wearing a wig and my brother pulled me aside to tell me she was getting chemo.  Gee, thanks for that shitload on my wedding day![/quote]

Cancer us extremely private, and there's no right if wrong way for a patient to handle it, PP. You are comparing it to social media settings? Needing chemo is very serious. Losing your hair is demoralizing. It is not about you![/quote]

You're right.  It's all on me, the reason why I don't have any relationship with my SIL.  Just all my fault.  Because I thought cancer and chemo were not serious things, and didn't understand that they weren't about me.  Me, me, me.  Yeah.  You've got my ticket.  I can certainly see where I went wrong was my failure to appreciate the seriousness of cancer.  It had absolutely nothing to do with the t brick wall that went up every time I reached out to her.  But you know better, you obviously are a better person.[/quote]

NP. Wow. It's actually quite obvious that you ARE the problem.[/quote]

Yes, SILs cancer ruined her special special wedding day![/quote]

No, it didn't ruin my wedding day.  That's ridiculous.  This is so typically DCUM distort and twist time.  Well, have fun girls!  Go to it![/quote]

Read what you wrote. You called your SILs cancer a "shitload" and specifically complained about finding out on your wedding day. [/quote]

New poster. I think you've bullied this woman enough. There's a difference between wishing the news hadn't been handed to you on your wedding day (perhaps understandable) and claiming your wedding was ruined. Calm down.
[/quote] I agree PP.[/quote]

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