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If you are smart about setting yourself up with flexible work, you can live a pretty great life with small kids, too. It's working for me just fine.

Women find it romantically disgusting to be involved with a man who can't take care of the family's material needs. They just do, with very few exceptions. It's not a "should" issue. It's just an "is" issue.

The only thing that I agree with you about is that men DO want to spend time with their kids, too.  If people make choices knowing spending time with kids will be a priority for them, then it's not impossible to work out.

I am not suggesting that the provider role should be all-consuming and draining. A man can choose wisely and find well paying work that isn't as consuming. There are options.

When women take on the breadwinner role they ARE drained. Because their husband's don't help out. Ask OP. [/quote]
I make four times what my husband makes and I am thrilled to have sex with him.  You just aren't the knower of all things you set yourself up to be.[/quote]

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