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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have any of you ever "woken up" your boyfriends/husbands with a surprise BJ?

Millions of women have. Does that make them rapists?[/quote]

I have. I have explicit permission from my husband to wake him up with sex at any time.

I hate that kind of thing, however, and I'd be super-pissed if he did the same thing to me.  I've told him explicitly that I don't consent to being sexed up while I am sleeping.

Amazing how clear things can be if you use your words. [/quote]

Absolutely. "No. Stop that." works wonders. [/quote]

Sure.  But that shouldn't be the default requirement - "I can do whatever I want to your body unless you tell me to stop."  The default should be that you get consent - ongoing consent - in advance.[/quote]

If you leave your front door open, and someone walks in, are they guilty of trespassing?

Without more context, it's hard to say for sure.

The problem with affirmative consent is that it pretends that consent can be reduced to a simple math equation. Real life is not often so cut and dried.[/quote]

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