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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have any of you ever "woken up" your boyfriends/husbands with a surprise BJ? Millions of women have. Does that make them rapists?[/quote] I have. I have explicit permission from my husband to wake him up with sex at any time. I hate that kind of thing, however, and I'd be super-pissed if he did the same thing to me. I've told him explicitly that I don't consent to being sexed up while I am sleeping. Amazing how clear things can be if you use your words. [/quote] Absolutely. "No. Stop that." works wonders. [/quote] Sure. But that shouldn't be the default requirement - "I can do whatever I want to your body unless you tell me to stop." The default should be that you get consent - ongoing consent - in advance.[/quote]
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