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Define "take one for the team" sex. [/quote]

[quote]She will say "ok, go for it."  pull her pajama bottoms off, pull panties to the side.  Tell me to get it going.  Lie there.  Pay me on the ass and say good job when done.

I [b]think she feels[/b] good about herself that she gets her husband off.  If there is karma in this world, her next husband will have zero sex drive not offer to hold a vibrator to her as he checks espn on his phone[/quote]

Don't kid yourself, PP. She's likely not feeling anything positive about you at all. Sometimes you just need to back off, have faith in the person you married and presumably still love, and let her come to you. Your way? It's not heading anywhere good. So she has a low sex drive right now. So what? There could be lots of reasons, emotional and physical, and it doesn't mean it's going to last. But you are not helping the situation with your "take one for the team" sex. You are seriously disrespecting the most important person in your life. And you talk karma?[/quote]

How long should I back off?  Its been 8 years of low drive.  Only enjoy sex 2 times a year on vacation? Does she beat any responsibility for finding something to turn her on or is it forever on me?

Perhaps we need to get away from each other for a while and figure it out.  Trial separation or something.  If we didn't have kids it would be easy to get this over with[/quote]

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