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[quote=Anonymous]"That she is willing to have sex with you is her gift. Accept it."

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Sorry PP but the above attitude is dead wrong.

All these passive men including OP, with sexually denying wives, have to get to the point where they believe that if they are willing to have sex with their wives, it's a gift to the wife.

Or at least, they have to get to the point at which they understand that marital sex from their wife is not a "gift" which they must hungrily "accept."   It is a MUTUAL, equal exchange, at a bare minimum.

OP, you need to get to the point where you can look your sexually denying wife in the eye and say "Honey I enjoy having sex with you but your pussy is nothing really special.   It doesn't spit out $100 bills and is not made of gold.  I am not going to beg you for sex.  If you don't care to have it with me, enthusiastically and frequently, as befits married people, I will find someone else to have it with.  If that bothers you, then you better start upping your game."

OP knows that's the answer since even HE said the only time she initiates sex with him is when she becomes concerned that she might "lose" him.

OP you will start generating sexual "desire" in your wife when you start treating her like absolute shit.  Like your sexual slave.  It's going to be uncomfortable for you because you have been brainwashed against that notion.

But every single anecdote from a woman about some man in her past who sexually excited her (before marriage) is always about some asshole who used her sexually and treated her like crap.

Yeah that's not in the feminist PC fairy tales you have been brought up with but it's true.[/quote]

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