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[quote=Anonymous]Have you had your sperm tested?  You might be shooting blanks and not even know.  How would you feel if your GF asked you to do a sperm test before the wedding, on the condition that she'd dump you if you didn't pass?

My DH and I have experienced infertility.  We were unexplained, which meant no cause could be found.  We eventually were able to have a daughter, after many years and many tears.  We knew that not matter what, we would have a child, somehow, some way.  Adoption, surrogacy, IVF, we would have figured it out.  But that was because we were 100% a TEAM.  We were in this together and together we'd find a way to get the life with children we'd always imagined.  This isn't to say these paths to children aren't difficult.  But if you love your gf, the rest is details.

If my DH and I weren't able to have a biological child, we both would have been sad.  We would have grieved.  But we would have done it TOGETHER.  The biggest red flag I saw in your post is that you all went your separate ways to deal with this news.  That's not a good sign.

Before you all move forward, I'd get into couples counseling so you can work through this with a professional.  [/quote]

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