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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If my sister sees something, she better tell me. Anyone else in the world, zip that shit up tight, because I do not want to hear it from you. I have said this in other threads (and got accused of being a person with stuff to hide)- my marriage is MY business. If there is something to find out, it's my problem to find it out. If I don't, or don't want to, that's on me. If I do, that's also on me. The last thing I ever want is anyone coming to me with information that essentially turns my life on its head. It's not your place, full stop. And it won't make me grateful to you, it will make me hate you for putting on me what I, and only I, had the right to find out if I wanted to.

The pressure once you put that information on someone is enormous because now they know you know. So if you stay? They think you're a chump, happy to be cheated on. If you leave, they take credit. They feel invested, included, partially responsible for "saving" you.

And the LAST person I would want to hear from is some OW trying to absolve herself of guilt or wrongdoing. If you know you didn't do anything wrong, be satisfied with that. Don't feel the need to go unburden your conscience on someone's wife.[/quote]

If you don't want to know you don't have to listen and you don't have to believe.  You can't control what other people do or say, you can only control your reaction to it.  [/quote]

Right because in the real world you can put your hands over your ears and say la la la can't hear you. [/quote]

The truth shall set you free.  You can ignore, push it aside, tell yourself that you just talked to a crazy person.  Continue to deny.  But if you ever need the truth, you've got it.[/quote]

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