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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like she's staying for th kids OP. Sorry. [/quote]

OP here - yeah, think I realized that a couple weeks ago.  Also, more recently I woke up to that, 7+ months on from this first post, it's not so much that she doesn't love me - which she doesn't other than "if he died tomorrow I would be sad" kind of way I would say - but that she doesn't even like me.  Not that she actively dislikes me, but just that she comes home to two wonderful DDs and this other person who also lives in the house.  This person loves, and is very helpful in managing, DDs.  He also does other helpful things around the house and the 4 of them take vacations together, helps support everyone and is financially responsible, etc., but for whom she has no feelings.  E.g., a relative died a few weeks back when she was in California and other than an obligatory "sorry" via email, when she returned she didn't even mention it.  No "how are you feeling, how is the rest of the family doing, etc."  Nothing.  Admittedly it wasn't my mother, but someone I've known my entire life just the same.  I got more sympathy from my therapist and my MIL.

Only explanation other than an AP is that she's staying for the kids and seeing me isn't too horrible, at least for the time being.  As for an AP, I don't think so, although I suspect something more serious went on earlier this year with someone than she was willing to admit at the time.  Hard to bring up again without being sure.

Other than that, all is f$$$king swell![/quote]

Feelings are over-rated; your marriage would have been considered perfectly fine all through history up to about 50 years ago (and in many places still today)[/quote]

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