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Reply to "WWYD in this situation? New husband wants a baby"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP shouldn't be guilted into IVF and that's exactly what it is. Men get off so easily here its ridiculous. IVF isn't the only option. Try some naturopathic options for him first. A woman with 3 older kids with an agreement that IVF would not be an option should not have to change to prove she loves him enough. It's her body. What is HE doing other than really wanting a kid of his own? If kids were so important to him, why wasn't he married several years ago? This is what we tell women, right? What if 1 time doesn't work...will he resent her if she doesn't try a 2nd time? It's a slippery slope. OP, if your gut says no, don't make such a permanent decision. Once he gets over his disappointment, he should understand the risks involved for you. He could be great with your kids because they're older and he gets weekends away from parenting regularly. That doesn't mean he will be good with a newborn/infant/toddler at home 7 days a week.[/quote]
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