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[quote=Anonymous]OP I am not even going to read all the postings cause no doubt people are piling on to you But I think you made an important disticintion.  It sounds like your wife isnt' even trying. It took me a full year to lose the 40lbs I gained but I was out taking long walks with baby the first week home in Jan!  My DH has never said one negative thing to me and always acted attracted to me.  If your wife doesnt seem bothered by the weight that may be a red flag that she has accepted the "new normal' and I have found that people who were overwegith before pregancy tend to be a lot more ok with that post pregnancy.   You should start cooking all meals or get a meal delivery service.   Offer to watch the kid so she can get some alone time. Hell, that was my number reason to start running again-30 min of ME time.   I even had a jog stroller but for never used it cause I loved being alone.   Also, is she still in pain from birth?  I had to see a physical therapist to help with my tail bone and kegels and it was a solid 8 months before I wasn't peeing a little bit when I ran.  YOu sound like a decent guy and you want to do right by your wife. You are also a man and visuals matter.   Work out with her.  Or splurge and have a trainer come to the house. Stroller striders is another option. But honestly, the eating makes the biggest difference.  Good luck to you both. New babies are so life changing, you BOTH have to find the new normal. [/quote]

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