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[quote=Anonymous]I gained a lot of weight while breastfeeding.  I was RAVENOUS all the time, even moreso than during pregnancy.  Like, seriously, 10 times moreso.  I also struggled with milk supply, and my milk really took a hit if I wasn't eating and drinking well.

So, I'd say that if your wife was inclined to a decent diet and exercised regularly before the baby and breastfeeding, you really can take heart that things may adjust back in the right direction once she is done nursing.

But metabolisms do change.  And she's got a lot of stress, and sometimes ice cream really feels good in a crazy world of overwork, missing your baby, and adjusting to all of the changes of motherhood.

What I worry about is that she's with a guy who is ALREADY questioning his commitment to the marriage just 5 months after they had a baby.  Seriously, he's actually questioning whether he will be attracted to her for the long run.  FIVE MONTHS AFTER SHE HAD A BABY.

Dude, you need to get your priorities straight.  Is she your wife no matter what, or not?  Did you promise to love and honor her in sickness and in health...or did you have a clause that excused you from your commitment due to fat?  Seriously.  Some guys actually think that fat is a reason to end a marriage.   Do you?  Because it sounds like you do.[/quote]

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