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[quote=Anonymous]OP I'm so sorry that you are going through this. It sounds absolutely heart wrenching.

I read the thread, and you mentioned a couple of times that your marriage pre-cheating was rocky, yet you did admit some culpability. Do you think that if you were to make a commitment to ending your part in your prior conflicts that your marriage could improve? Do you think your husband is a fundamentally good guy who got swept up in a rosier seeming situation due to alienation at home?

Unless you have reason to believe that your husband never loved you or is fundamentally a shitty person, then if I were you I would spend the next months really improving myself in the interpersonal department. Do it to be a better person, not to hold onto him. If he is responsive, maybe your marriage can truly improve. If it's just a matter of him not wanting to be with you anymore, then you'll still be in a better place.

Many of us have emotional issues when it comes to very close relationships. You can take this time to try to work on yours. Btw, this would also be excellent for your children to witness.

Take care of yourself. [/quote]

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