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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand, but she has already made it clear that she is not interested. The only thing left is to tell him to stop contacting her.  Nothing she says is going to change his obsession with her, or he would have backed off the first 2 times. the sooner she starts ignoring him the sooner he will no longer be a part of her life. If he proceeds to start stalking her physically then you get the police involved. It's as simple as that. He doesn't seem to be that type or I think he would have had a physical presence by now. [b] Woman have to get rid of stalkers all the time, it's not rocket science lol[/b]. Any attention she gives him, even in the form of a lengthy response, will be seen (by him) as an invitation to continue.  It doesn't have to be rational for him to act on it. We have already established this guy is a kook.   Best course of action?  Tell him in no uncertain terms to stop trying to contact you and move forward.[/quote]

LOL! Women do this all the time so lets ridicule this one for reaching out for advice. What an idiot she is, she probably enjoys being stalked.

:roll: [/quote]

Oh please, I was not ridiculing her. No need to troll[/quote]

Sure seemed like you were making light of her concern, I mean lol its not rocket science right and shes just leading him on.[/quote]

I said its not rocket science as in you need to say it in one sentence as "do not contact me again" and ignore all further contact. Instead of trying to come up with a way to convey that message without upsetting him.  How you got that, out of everything  else I  wrote , is a bit sad.  I thought I made quite a few good points.  I guess we just handle stalkers differently .[/quote]

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