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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - any updates?[/quote]

OP here - Told him everything 10 days ago. We've barely spoken and are sleeping in separate bedrooms. Last therapy session was painful. Not looking forward to the next one. Ugh. [/quote]

OP here again - to fill in a detail, I ended getting pretty tipsy at an out of town training a few weeks back and ended up kissing someone at a bar late one night.  Before we went any further than that I pulled back and left.  Wracked with guilt I ended up telling DH this in addition to full details about the OM in this post (the "10 days ago" note above).  DH reacted very negatively and angrily and couldn't stop thinking of me "being with another man."  This past weekend he essentially ran away to a hotel and didn't come back until earlier tonight.

His reaction seems so out of proportion to what I did, especially considering his past drinking habits and how distant we had become, and that I stopped and confessed.  Am I wrong to think that?  I made a mistake and confessed, whereas DH was constantly lying to me about his drinking.  Seems like in any kind of weighing I come out ahead. Or is weighing the wrong thing to do?  [/quote]

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