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No, sorry, saying "You're close-minded!" or "You're projecting!" is basically saying "I don't like what you're saying, so shut up!"  Now you are saying "You're not a psychiatrist, or a scientist, so shut up!"  There are very few psychiatrists or scientists posting on this board.  We all go through life sorting through infinite amounts of data.  What I have seen, personally, in my life, is that promiscuous people (men and women) are a big, big mess.  A hot mess, if you will.  It is extreme and obvious.  Maybe you can explain that away by saying "oh that's what you've been socialized to believe," but in that manner you are de-legitimizing every personal observation that every person makes EVER.  You are telling me not to trust my own eyes, and my own experience, because it is very important to you that we not contradict the idea that promiscuity is not immoral.  Well ok.  I'm not commenting on the morality of the issue.  I don't look down on someone who wants to have sex.  I'm saying that all of the promiscuous people I know are a big, hot, mess.[/quote]

Alright, PP... Aren't you happy that you are not a big hot mess?!  But who really cares, PP.  So what if they are....How does that affect you is my question?  It is them who are, not you, a big hot mess.  Let them deal with their big hot mess.

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OP started a board on this topic.  Are we supposed to not talk about it because some people don't like what is being said?

Everyone has friends and relatives and people who they care about who have problems in their relationships, and we care, because we care about those people.  What should OP say to someone like her friend?  And it is good to sort through these issues.  I have children.  What am I going to teach them about sex, and relationships?  Are the norms in our society healthy, and will following the crowd lead to their happiness and stability?  Personally, I don't think so.  It is good to discuss these issues, and have everyone give their opinion.  People get so insulting and defensive, assuming that someone who disagrees with them is judging them.  But I'm not.  I just like talking about stuff.[/quote]

You get insulted.  I have no intention of insulting you.  I, just like you, share my opinion.  And we all know that opinions are like hmm, noses, everyone has one.

Lighten up, PP.  It is all good.  We are not solving world hunger here.  Don't get emotionally highjacked by my responses.  Just ignore them.

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Why do you think I am getting emotionally hijacked?  What does that even mean?  You can rest easy knowing that I don't really give a shit about this nonsense, pp, I just happen to be writing in a more serious tone.  Cuz I feelz like it, LOLZ.

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