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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Title says most of it. Contemplating asking for separation/divorce. My H seems content with little to no emotional or sexual intimacy. We have been in Marriage counseling for 7 months, I see an individual therapist. H does not want to see an individual therapist, saying he will figure things out on his own. I am realizing that I do not want to live my life wondering why my H doesn't want intimacy. I do not want to live my life fantasizing about lots of other men. I don't want to live my life contemplating an affair (I just turned down an offer from a married colleague in the same boat)

But what am I getting myself in to here? Two kids K and 2nd grade. I work and can support myself in a small 2 bdrm apt. I hate to do this to my children, but I am dying inside, and I can't make my marriage work all by myself.[/quote]

Good luck, I have no advice. I settled for the marriage you have, but took the married colleague up on his offer. Hypocritical, but way less disruptive.[/quote]

I think OP should have the affair and with a married man who isn't looking to leave his wife.  If she wants great sex to fill the void, the quality of the man she can attract will be higher if she is unavailable than if she is available.[/quote]

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