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[quote=Anonymous]It is odd that he would tell you what he said to the barista.  I could see a guy saying that to a beautiful woman just on the spur of the moment, flirting, but intending it to go nowhere.  Whether that is right or wrong when he's married is not my point.  Some guys will do that from time to time and not think about it first.  What is odd is that most men wouldn't relay that to their wife, if even just out of respect for her feelings.  
 
It is possible he wanted to make you jealous, or used it to start a fight when he's already unhappy about other things.  I have another theory though.  You said she called him out on flirting with her, essentially.  That she said "isn't that your wife you're usually with", or something like that.  If she went as far as to say that to him, he full-on flirted with her.  He found out where she moved from, what her story was, her age, yadda yadda, AND said she was beautiful.  She felt like she was being hit on, or at least strongly flirted with, and pointed out that he had a wife.  I wonder if he then realized he went to far (perhaps not intending to), and then got worried that she would tell you next time you were in.  Maybe he felt like it was safer to tell you himself than for you to hear it second hand.  Just an idea, since you are still wondering why he'd bring it up at all.[/quote]

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