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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wonder how white women feel about white men going for nonwhite women. I have definitely been hurt by losing a few white female friends who just couldn't believe that white men they found attractive wanted and preferred dark "exotic" me.  No one told them that Disney movies aren't real, lol.[/quote]

It sounds like you want to believe white women are upset about this.  We aren't.  Go for it!  I'm not seething about what race a white man dates.  If he's not dating me, I don't care and hope everybody's happy. [/quote]

I'm glad that's your experience, but for a lot of white women this is actually a thing. It's not good and definitely not universal, but it happens, so the PP's experience is totally believable. I've encountered it from white female friends who thought I would be their sympathetic ear about asian-american women taking "our" men.[/quote]

I've never met a single white woman who would ever say anything like that.  Maybe the difference is education level?  [/quote]

Maybe the difference is BMI.[/quote]

That could be. Those two things are correlated. Generally speaking, educated people have less obesity then less educated people. There's obviously also a correlation with poverty.  I'm a white woman, and most of my friends are white women. I've never met anyone who is jealous of Asian women or black women for that matter.  But my friends are well-educated, generally in good shape, which is normal for people have been to college or postcollege.[/quote]

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