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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I am a black woman that is married to a white man, and all I can say is that your post is offensive, and you need to expand your world view and/or life experience, as they both come across as embarrassingly shallow.[/quote]

Sometimes the truth can be offensive but nonetheless it's the truth.  You didn't marry a black man either yet you criticize OP for not wanting to do so.  She's honest, you're disingenuous.  [/quote]

Nope, sometimes it's the [i]perceived[/i] truth (stereotypes) that are offensive.  And I didn't marry a white man because of my preference for white men, I married him because of my preference for him.  He is also tall, yet that does not mean that I have a preference for tall men.  To me, the physical attributes of men are just surface level things.  I get that people have cultural differences and cultural preferences, but the thing is, black men across the country and across the world have VARYING cultures, not simply the stereotypical issues that she presented here.  That's why I said to expand her world view/experience.  There is not ONE "black culture".[/quote]

Don't be obtuse. It is very obvious that the posts in question are referring to [b]American black men. [/b] Did you really think the OP was about Masai men in Kenya?[/quote]

How many generations does it take before an immigrant family is considered American?[/quote]

Start your own thread, my dear.[/quote]

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