Reply to How do we get out of this circular argument? Joint DH and DW post

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "How do we get out of this circular argument? Joint DH and DW post"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH wants to say to this forum that the stepson was doing other drugs too (exstasy, hookah, Drinking). DH says stepson did crack, Stepson says he never did.  DW says Stepson now works at a place that drug tests and has never failed a drug test and moved out.

DH wants to add that no one thinks he's innocent because they don't know him and they don't know [b]how awful DW is and how unreasonable [/b]she is.

DW says that's a great reason to leave, but doesn't justify the lying.

And this is another example of why this is circular.........[/quote]

I post previously about how to save this relationship, but after this update...there isn't anything to save. DW--why would you want to stay with someone who thinks you are awful and unreasonable? You need  therapy just to figure out why you would stay with someone who thinks that about you. Does not matter if he has stuck his penis in her vagina or just talked inapropriately. He thinks you are [b]AWFUL and UNREASONABLE!!![/b] Let's play a game here and assume you are awful and unreasonable--why is DH with you? If you are so horrible, why would he be with you? What is wrong with him that he stays with such an awful, unreasonable person? Maybe it's because you bring  money, or free live in maid or some other thing that he can use, then he can get his nookie on the side with a clear conscience.

Why isn't there something inside of you that just rears up and tells him to Fuck Off. No person ever should put up with someone who thinks such horrible things about you. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics