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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^But you have talked about them- in fact, YOU brought them up.

You are trying to prove that somehow youre a better catch than her because everyone on this thread thinks differently.

Again, I am old money too, but I dont rely on that to form my identity, and I have never used that as an excuse to not pursue earning MY OWN money.

If you bring something into the discussion, be prepared for people to call you on it and give their opinion.

No one is "trolling" you- they just dont like you or respect you... got it? [/quote]

Gaslight much? Seriously, I weep for your husband. If you go back and look at the thread, you were the one who insulted me when I explicitly only gave out limited info on my bio/income and my gf's bio/income. You wrote, "Also, it's even funnier that she outearns you by such a margin and yet only has a BA and you have a ton of graduate degrees. Kind of hilarious actually." Only at that time did I come back at you to explain that yes, some people choose prestige over income and provide context on why my current salary only being in the low 100s versus 400s doesn't bother me. You were being nasty and deflecting from the topic at hand. Go back and read your posts. You were blah blah tell us about her job it sounds so interesting. OP did not come on to talk about jobs. I gave a little context and asked why she would stay. You couldn't stay on topic. [/quote]

No, you brought being "old money" into the discussion.

And, excuse me, but that is hilarious.  Because it speaks to a complete failing on your part, and a real reversal of the expected outcomes.

You came in to ask for relationship advice, specifically why this lady hasnt dumped you.  [b]I happen to be more interested in hearing about [/b]your GF's achievements because I find her much more interesting than you.

You also seem to be fond of whining, both about your GF and then to the posters here when they dont find you to be the impressive person you've deluded yourself into thinking you are.

And instead of taking the opinions people gave you, you argued with EVERYONE and try to convince them otherwise.  Well, sorry, it doesn't work.  Thou dost protest too much, and I have never seen ANYONE on DCUM make such an ass of themselves trying to convince the posters here that they arent a loser.

Seriously?  Talking about being old money.

God. I have so much second-hand embarrassment for you right now. [/quote]

Bingo. Read the bolded part. You thread-jacked. And did it in a d-bag manner. Even if you're now post-hoc trying to claim your focus on income was to explain gf's behavior, it doesn't. Focusing on income actually makes gf's behavior make LESS, not MORE, sense. So you clearly had your own interests at heart in this thread. You're the one who isn't a particularly nice poster.[/quote]

:roll: It's not bingo anything.  I asked about your GF's business and you didn't want to give out info.  And then I responded accordingly, saying that I wasnt surprised (and I wasnt) given your clear inferiority complex.

This is when the bizarre ranting about being old money came in.

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